There are often some girls around me shouting that they want to fall in love, but there are really boys chasing them, but they want to run away again.
Maybe you really don't have the courage to start a new relationship, or you may be timid and go through the process of being abandoned again. .
My college roommate Coco, who has been single since she broke up after graduation, jokingly asked me to introduce her boyfriend every time I chatted with me, but when I really wanted to take her to meet a new guy, she would become very pussy and would not take the initiative to chat with others. When she met someone who came to add her as a friend, she just said "Hello, my name is Coco" in the dialog box, and there will be no more.
'it 's not that she doesn't want to take the initiative, it's just that the active risk factor is too high, and it depends on whether that person is worth it, 'she said.
It's too troublesome to get to know someone from the beginning of self-introduction. I don't want to spend any more time on a person, nor do I want to make any effort to please him.
Occasionally I envy the couple, but most of the time I am glad to be free. Want to fall in love is just talk, after all, really only once, in the past was wasted, will not give to others in the future.
It has to be said that people of our generation are very selfish, probably because they are so well protected that they will care about who gives more and who gives less in the relationship, and once they find that they have not received a corresponding return, they will turn around and walk away.
We are in love on this road, repeated defeats, more times, we no longer want love. .
But if you don't take the initiative, it will really cost us a lot of things. Such as good job opportunities, such as good friends, and such as good love.
I remember watching the Norwegian Forest in the past, there was a saying like this: "No one likes to be alone, but they just don't like disappointment."
Yes, you said you were always the one who would rather lose than take the initiative.
You said you didn't want to spend all your time and effort in exchange for his indifference, you were afraid to gamble on all your self-esteem and he made you lose face, you were afraid to see him and fall in love with him, you finally decided to take all the courage to get out of the glass bottle to hug him, and he was scared away by you.
You say you are eager to see that person, but you never ask to see him, not out of pride, but because you think it makes sense only when he wants to see you, too.
You say you will miss him, but do not contact him, not because he is not important in your heart, but do not know whether you are important in his heart. So even if missing rips you to the blur of blood and tears, you are still a pair of light clouds and light wind.
Yeah, why are you so passive?
I think, timid, afraid of pain, do not want to be disappointed, do not want to be sad, maybe this is why you, that is, we would rather lose than take the initiative. .
In the past two days, some fans have been asking me backstage, if a girl takes the initiative to chase a boy she likes, will she be looked down upon by the boy?
I think many people have experienced this problem, but we never have to think about whether to lose face or drop the price. After all, love is really unreasonable, and you who like him will move forward regardless of the consequences.
There is a saying in "this life is the first time" that I like it very much: "anyway, this is the first time in this life, and there is only one time in this life and now."
If you meet someone you love, why not take the initiative to give it a try?
Some time ago, a listener said that she was in love with a boy she had a crush on for more than half a year. She asked for the boy's Wechat, but the boy took the initiative to express her love.
Hugo once said: "the first sign of true love is timidity in boys and boldness in girls."
I took the first step towards you, so you mustn't be timid for the next 99 steps.
Just like this fan, in fact, during the induction training in the company, the boy fell in love with her at first sight and tried many times to take the initiative to ask her out for dinner and asked her what plans she had for the evening.
But every time the girl's reply was very insipid and normal, so he always felt that his conditions were not very good, so he did not have the courage to continue to take the initiative, so everyone waited in each other's secret love and went around in circles. Until the girl finally plucked up the courage to take the first step, added to his Wechat, talked about some topics, came and went, and left the rest to the boys.
What is love? Love is initiative, is mutual, although I know you are very good, standing so high, but I still want to tiptoe to build a ladder to enough.
Maybe, if we take the initiative a little bit, we will have a story.
Heard a lot of regret missed the story, lost to you do not take the initiative, he does not take the initiative. So many years later, you tacitly will miss it, and then frame it to fate.
Maybe in real life, there is not so much love for each other, but it is better to lose than to miss someone. After all, even if you don't have the courage to participate in this game, you really lose.
Therefore, do not let those in the draft box, in the bottom of my heart, in the memo that like, can only be turned into a sentence, long time no see.
Let's not hide in the corner to secretly love someone, take this step, maybe you will meet a sunny day.